Okay, so this is kinda to explain the last blog post. So I was seeing this girl for the last 2-3 weeks or so. Lets get this out of the way, she's pretty awesome. Except she's also awesomely terrible. How do those two things co-exist? Glad you asked.
So lets start with the good stuff. She's gorgeous, she's smart, she's funny. She doesn't appear to be evil and/or crazy (fingers crossed). She also seems really interested in me, that's always a plus. Our first date was amazing, we talked for hours and it seemed like no time had passed. We could only tell how late it was because the staff were starting to bring the chairs in from the patio.
Now lets start with the bad stuff. She CONSTANTLY changes/moves/bails on plans. Every single date we've been on (which at my count is 2 1/2) has been either postponed, cancelled or she has arrived late. Now not 5-15 minutes late, we're talking over 30 minutes. That's how you get 1/2 a date. Our second date was a paltry 30 minute meeting that she squeezed me into. I mean wtf is that? That's not even the worst part. So our last date, she arrived approximately 45 minutes late. But then it was proceeded by an amazing night. Awesome you say? Not so fast. We have such a good time, she wants to hang out a couple days later. Cool, except that she pretty much disappears for the next three days practically.
We finally text a bit, she apologizes (which she's had to an awful lot over a span of two weeks). I tell her that I had a really great time with her, miss her and would like to plan to see her again. She says that I'm cute and sweet and she likes spending time with me, but she doesn't know when it may happen again as she's really busy as things have been popping up unexpectedly. Okay, LAMEST ANSWER EVER. If you really want somebody or something in your life, you'll make the time. Don't tell me that you think I'm awesome, only to throw some backdoor insult my way in the same sentence.
Then she phones me up to plan when to meet up next. Guess what, her phone cuts out all of a sudden. I call her back, she can't pick up because her dogs are giving her trouble. I tell her she can call me later, but she doesn't. The next day she says her phone died! Like literally it's not working anymore.
So here's the last straw. This past weekend, she asks what I'm doing, as if we're going to meet on Saturday night. I respond that I didn't have anything planned. And I knew she didn't. Until a few hours later she says some dinner came up with friends that she never sees anymore.
Then on Sunday evening she's not doing anything, but she's tired. I said even though she's tired, does she want to meet to do something quick, like coffee, or maybe something relaxing like a movie. She said she'd call me. Did that happen? Of course not. I get a text around midnight saying she fell asleep.
This is just stupid ridiculous. Crappy part, is she left her sweater at my place. Now it's stuck here, and it reminds me of her. You can only apologize for the same thing so much, I figure, you don't really mean it, otherwise it wouldn't keep happening with such frequency.
I hate using this term, but FML, WTF. I guess I won't be contacting her again. Hence, Bye Bye Bye...
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